This has been such a difficult year but God has blessed me in more ways than I can count. I know I keep mentioning this but my dad was only given 3 to 6 months to live in March of 07. He passed away last November. He was 82, frail and kept fighting. What a blessing it was to have him for those 14 extra months. My mother is 78, maybe weighs 120 on a good day soaking wet. She cared for my dad 24/7 and because of that he was able to be at home until his last moments on this earth. Another incredible blessing that God has granted such strength to her. I have seen so many acts of kindness this year. What a gift to work for a company who allowed me to spend so much time with my daddy. They are a Christian company, the owner and his son are always sending e-mails that urge us all in a Christian walk. I don't see them much since I don't work at the home office but they have followed my fathers illness and let it be known several times they continue to support me. What a blessing that God would put me with such a company so I could spend so much time with daddy. The first week of November I went to Spring Hill Nursery. I wanted to get some daffodil bulbs for my mother.

Hi Suzanne. We were coming through that same stretch of highway yesterday afternoon in that storm and saw at least four cars that had spun off the road. It was really good to see Jake on Christmas Eve.

I don't know you, Suzanne, but your story touched my heart deeply!! Thank you for sharing!! God bless you!!

Mike,

Merry Christmas to you and your lovely family!! My heart has been so blessed for the two years that I have been in the family of Ginghamsburg Church!!

Thank you for your vision, faith, and commitment to the voice of God even when the fears rise up all around us! The world will continue to be changed by the little church in the cornfield as long as we keep our eyes on Him!!! Thank you to all of our pastors and leaders for trusting the main source of our strength...God!! We are so fortunate to be able to even attend a church openly...let alone have such a strong and dedicated staff!! My heart goes out to all of you for the difficult decisions that you make. May God bless all of you!!

One thing about the new year...it will bring its challenges and its blessings...and our God will be there for us!! All of us need to pray for our leaders and for each other and thank God daily for the good He sends our way!! As Michael Smith would say...Let the church arise ~
even during the difficult times!!!

Gratefully,
Barb Thase

Remaining faithful is a privilege. I heard that the importance of putting 80% of investments one has left into a FDIC-insured bank (up to 250,000) per bank and the other 20% in gold coins. I figured most know this but I thought I would just say it as people are losing their 401's etc. and it was said in March of 2007, but not too many started doing it until just recently. They wanted confirmation and unfortunately the confirmation came in the form of the reality of the situation happening that caused it. It's not to make people hold on to their money, but I say it so people will have money to give to God's work for as long as possible in the form of finacial. Also that they hopefully have something to eat when they retire. michaiah

My husband Ken has been laid-off twice in our 20-years together and it was difficult both times. We were young and didn't really know what to do in many ways. We always had food to eat, a roof over our heads, and clothes on our backs, but it was hard to learn to rely on God from day to day and hour by hour, but we learned that we had so much more than we thought. We are so truly blessed in this country with material things.
His job is up for contract in '09 and I'm not looking forward to the stress of dealing with it, but I know God is in control and as a child, I was in dire situations many times. My Mother struggled mentally and barely managed to feed us and there was no support system. I often went to bed in the August heat with no a/c which was typical. Sometimes, my brother Ricky and I would just sit miserably in front of one of those old box fans. There were nights in this one-bedroom apartment we rented in Dayton when I would have to tuck a sheet in all around my body including my head because the roaches and mice would crawl on me and I felt so much better knowing there was that thin barrier between me and them. When I think how much worse it is in some 3rd world countries, I can truly identify with some of the struggles. Some of the most bizarre stories come from a life of poverty. I feel rich in comparison. When my Mom got sick, well, more sick, I just kind of went through this depression thing in all of it's phases and I just lost focus and took on unsecured debt which we hadn't had in so many years. Then when I got to the acceptance stage, I was faced with what I had done. I am happy to say the plan for recovery is going well and I'm asking for the blessing of God to be given the time to recover so that we can be of greater benefit to those in need which is expected to rise. I think food will be the main thing needed for people and then housing and some clothes. Some may not even be able to pay or at least not very much. I have accepted my Mother's disease of Alzheimer's, but I still pray for her recovery regularly. As a child, I lived with my younger brother and my Mom in a tent for 6 months and became very resourceful. It's amazing what we can do without. I must say, I've gotten used to having many basic needs met and good food which I didn't know about until I was older. Anyway..I guess what I'm saying is that it's possible to get through almost anything. I was unaware of God's presence at least mentally (looking back, I see where my spirit contained the existence of faith w/o my knowing it then), with the knowledge of His presence, one can pray and have aware faith and He will tend to your need. And for the love of God, don't panic. love, michaiah

Merry Christmas eveyone. God bless you all in the New Year.

Mike
I just wanted to thank you for your dedication to serve us through your inspirational teaching and dedication to Ginghamsburg. Your never wavering commitment to be a "Jesus Freak" is awesome. I appreciate your commitment to preach those long Christmas Eve services. I also thank your family for supporting you. May God continue to bless your ministry, to give you health and energy to teach us and inspire us to be the hands and feet of Jesus.
Peace Brother

From the time a was a child, the emphasis at Christmas has always been about giving to others. Since the Darfur project I have feel it even more.

Now when I go shopping, I carry extra money to give to put in the Salvation Army kettles and I stop and thank the people with the kettles for being there to collect the funds. A couple of times the "kettle people" have been standing out in freezing, snowy weather.

One day I passed by a Toys for Tots Box. Now I have seen that box many times in the store and always zipped right on by it. That day, however, I heard a "voice" in my head that said, "Go buy two dolls for the box." I just couldn't seem to get those words out of my head. I knew that I had to put toys in the box. I didn't buy two dolls--I bought three. A couple days later, I learned that one of my friends is helping distribute toys from the box. She was in tears when I told her what I had done. It wasn't really me that did it, of course, it was God.

God has so blessed me. In one of your messages a few weeks ago, Pastor Slaughter, you said something like if God blesses us with wealth, we are to share it. I am trying to do that. In 2005, a Max Lucado book was published titled "TURN Back to Our Foundations". The book has meant so much to me. In the first chapter, Lucado emphasizes that it is not our national leaders that are in control of what happens to America. It is God.

Well, I only bought a T-Shirt, but I love it. It is really good quality material and I feel good wearing it knowing people might become involved by my marketing.

When I was 16, I was 2 years into art in High School. The teacher gave us a thick book and said for us to flip through it and see what picture we wanted to do and in what medium. I looked through that book for what seemed like an hour or two although it probably wasn't that long. As I turned the page and saw the image before me, I knew that was the one. It was simply called, "The Scream".

I decided to do it in charcoal because it fit the theme well. The picture was of a male african toddler sitting in the middle of ravaged and war-torn ruins. He was utterly alone. As he sat with torn and soiled clothes, his head was lifted toward the heavens and his mouth was open as the veins in his little neck stood out a bit. His eyes were shut tight as he was crying out as loud as he could. Silent where I was, I could only imagine his pain from across the miles. A deep wondering and sadness was with me as I drew out the image over the next few weeks the image being permanently impressed upon my mind. No one ever commented on the picture I did. They were only silent and didn't seem to want to talk about it and I wasn't real good at confrontation with adults at that time so I didn't question. I just took out my little drawing over the years and studied it within myself. Somehow, I was intimately tied to this child and those like him, but I didn't really understand. I began to lift the image of him in my mind to the Lord when I was 21. Half my life ago. So I guess I don't need to say how the Darfur Project and others like it have changed my life as I think of this lonely, terrified child and his utter helplessness and need. To be there for the screams we can't hear. To purposefully listen for them. Thank You

Dear Mike You always speak directly to Dale & me in your weekly messages but last weeks' message, "the gift with a cost" touched our hearts in a special way. Our family celebrates an African Christmas each year & has been so blessed. We appreciate your faithfulness, your vision & your passion for all the people of the world. We support you as you continue to stir us to action. Grateful for your leadership & service. Mary Alice

This is the first year my family and I will participate in the miracle offering for Darfur here at Ginghamsburg. We are extremely blessed to have our eyes enlightened to the need and how God has blessed us in order that we might be a blessing in Darfur and in other places. It is no small gift to receive the challenging yet freeing and anointed messages given by Mike at Ginghamsburg Church. I have been preparing our children for the shift in giving this Christmas since August. Slowly but surely they have begun to understand. My 12 year old daughter went out with four other gymnasts two weekends ago and bought a gift for a child whose mother is incarcerated. She decided to use her own savings. This weekend, my wife, son, and I had an amazing conversation about Darfur and the sin of indifference.
Mike, it's good to be with you!

Pastor Mike that was one of your best sermons. I can no longer attend Gum as I live in Georgia. But I usher when I am in town as I love serving the Lord. I also listen to your semons online. I want a Jesus Christmas, where he came from and what he stands for. I do not wear a tie where I attend church. They ask me why I am not wearing a tie, I tell the people that I can not wash feet wearing a tie. And as for your handicap, you will be ONE UNDER THE LORD'S CARE.

Brian-your post made me reflect back to 2004 when Mike first shared his God vision with us. What an exciting time it was then and still is today. I could feel the excitement in your words and it is awesome your kids are understanding the real meaning of "the least of these" at such a young age.

Mike-There is not a day that goes by that I don't pray and think of our brothers and sisters in the Sudan. Thanks for challenging all of us a few years ago with your God dream. It is cool to know we are part of something that is so divine and smiled upon by our Lord.

Mike & GUM leadership,
This is off-topic, but I felt the need to ask. Would it be possible for you to list again your belief and stance on homosexuality, gay-marriage & gay long-term relationships. It is for my own informational purposes. Also, could you state your belief and stance verbally from the pulpit and be as specific as possible? I would really appreciate it and it would help me in my studies and in my understanding. Thank You.

I wanted to further clarify the above request. I am referring to those who profess and follow Christ and have for some time. My question is specifically you belief and stance concerning them. Thank You

Mike,
Please see 12th comment on "Compassion Fatigue". It is off-topic here. thanks, michiah

As you often do Mike, you challenged me to think...I have been studying and praying about if I have the sin of indifference in my life. I am aware of the hunger in the world, as well as the possible hunger of my neighbor, the abuse of our precious earth, the robbing of the natural resources, the killing the unborn child, makes me very sad indeed. When I turn on my facet to get a drink it triggers the guilt that someplace in the world there is the lack of clean drinkiing water, and people have died because of it. You spoke about the "Advent conspiracy, the movement to remove the consumerism from Christmas, I am in favor of that. I do not want to have spiritual apathy, I do not want to be blind to suffering in the world. It is in the blindness that the devil tempts us. We need people like you to remind us that indifference is death, the enemy would like nothing better. This reminds me of Jesus agonizing in the garden, and when He rose from prayer, He found the disciples sleeping, "exhausted from sorrow." The disciples was suffering from indifference. He told them to get up and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. I don't want to be asleep with the spiritual apathy, I want to be wide awake to His passion and calling. I know my Father understands my stuggle, and that He will forgive me of my sin, because it is He who suffered for my wrong thinking.

EC - For some unknown reason you brought into this discussion a request for Mike to clarify his views and judgement aboubt homosexuals. That tangent usually produces a separate string of responses.
I think religious leaders who are outspokenly anti-gay are by far the most unChristlike people in our society. I believe the vast majority of gay men and women have been damaged in their development as human beings by church doctrines. It's a tragedy.
If you believe in your heart that gay people choose to be gay, I think you are several decades behind in your social and moral understanding, at least on this issue. Ask yourself, please, why is it so important to you?
I am reminded of the story of the shepherd (Jesus) going after the one lost sheep, leaving the others behind. I think that lost sheep that Jesus found, was very much like homosexuals trying to be part of a Christian flock -
except that in most churches the "shepherd" is the pastor, and he or she bears little resemblance to the soul of Jesus.

How do we get from the Sudan to homosexuality? It would be nice to stay on topic especially during the Xmas season. “Xmas” - look it up, it has religious roots. For those who want to write the sermons; here’s a suggestion, buy some books, get an education, then go out and get your own church.

In the spirit of The Nativity, Merry Christmas to ALL!!

hi mike - i've been changed for sure, and it's changed our home environment. we want to be sure we don't get too far from the central focus of the season. i've stepped out and decorated for an alternative christmas this year - photos posted at www.redesigningworship.blogspot.com. may all God's children be blessed this christmas!

Dear Scott,

I am not asking Mike to clarify his judgement about homosexuality. I am asking he and leadership to clarify their scriptural discernment concerning God's position on the matter. I feel that it is important to know what those who teach you believe so that you can make an informed decision about what to receive from them in terms of teaching. If I were a teaching minister, I would certainly not be offended by someone asking me what I believe. That's what I'd be here for. To teach. I am sorry that you found my question offensive. I believe a blog is the perfect place to ask a question from the one hosting it. Scott, it's not about gaining knowledge for the purpose of being "anti-gay". I myself am pro-human, and it is not my purpose to educate myself so that I may harm people. It is my duty to become knowledgeable about not only Christ but what I'm being taught. I'm sorry if that is offensive to you. It is possible to leave any sin, no matter what it is. I have testimony of Christ's deliverance of many sins of my life. I have a right to ask a question.

Rich B.
so what you're saying is that it's important to be or at least temporarily "act" more righteous during the "Christmas" season and part of that would be not to ask questions that are pertinent to your education? I just want to make sure I understand. I think I get it. You see, the thing with me is that it's Christmas all year so when Christmas comes, it isn't really any different for me in terms of my behavior and spirit of giving. I am not starting a church because that's not what God wants me to do right now. That could change. I don't know.

Thank you for your love, kindness, patience and caring during this special season. God Bless

Feeding the poor which is absolutely critical doesn't make other scripural priorities go away.

Since some are offended by me asking a legitamate question on this blog topic, I looked for one that was more topical. I'll list it on the one where mike briefly touches on the subject of homosexuality and the church. No offense intended.

Changing Sudan, Changing Us posted on 12/16/08 by Mike Slaughter seems to me deserves at least the consideration of participants to stay on topic. If you insist on making a comment on homosexuality, abortion, Catholics, politics, cheating on a spouse – whatever, just go back to that topic from another original post. It’s all there and I’m sure he’ll see there was a hit and read it. Being controversial to attract attention to me is unproductive. This isn’t a top 40 radio station where you call in and request a song to be played. I’d imagine preparing a sermon requires deep thoughts and a spiritual evaluation of ones beliefs. This is not the season to be sanctimonious.

I can remember when I was really changed by Sudan. I connected with the mission from the first day, but when it became real to me, was at one of the first receptions we had, to see what was being accomplished. I remember seeing kids playing, coming out of the school smiling. I thought I would see starving, dying kids...misery. The simple fact of those happy kids hit me so hard. It took so little. Mike asked us how we felt after watching that presentation, and I couldn't speak without crying so wrote him later. But I wasn't feeling happy about our success, I was feeling embarrassed. This wasn't a "sacrifice" of a few Christmas presents, this was our duty. How could I have thought I was sacrificing anything is what I was thinking....I was repentant. Even as I'm writing this, I'm thinking about (and repenting) how stingy I have been feeling, because of fear. My husbands work doesn't have any jobs lined up and are almost finished with the one they are on. I work, but have cut down on clients because of physical problems, and damage done over the years. I've used a huge chunk of my savings account with mission trips in the last year, plus had to buy 3 large appliances that were dying. I'm feeling the panic of seeing those numbers in that account drain out.

Dear Mike, I was saddened by the message from the person who was looking for a "Traditonal Christmas." Three years ago I witnessed a true Christmas miracle when our home group was asked to shop for the household items that would be needed for a refugee family coming to Dayton just the week before Christmas. They came with almost nothing but the clothes on their backs.

On Christmas eve we sat with the Modi family and saw
from their prospective the conditions in the Sudan and Ginghamsburgs commitment to help.

After the service I was so excited about meeting this family and helping to be a part of their settling here. I could not sleep and so I turnd on the TV and I cannot describe how my eyes were truly opened to the self-indulging society we have become. Commercial after commercial shouted that we would never be happy or reach the ultimate achievement unless we purchase this luxury item. It made me see that I have been gorging myself on always wanting more "stuff."

Since that time, we have come to know the Modi's story and to truly care about them. It has been exciting to see how the Lord is working in their lives. I can never be the person I was before I met them and became a part of the Sudan project.

God bless, Kathy Ishmael

To EC: I am replying on behalf of the Ginghamsburg leadership team in regards to your question. At Ginghamsburg, we believe that every person is important to God. We always welcome to our worship celebrations, activities and church community anyone who is seeking a life-saving relationship with Jesus, no matter what their orientation. Of course, as a United Methodist Church, we also affirm and follow UMC church policy as reflected in The Book of Discipline, the rules/policies book for all United Methodist churches. If you would like to learn more about United Methodist practices/beliefs in this or any area, you are welcome to explore the website umc.org and search on the word "homosexuality" for available information. Since the original question is unrelated to the blog, if you have additional questions, please call the church at 937.667.1069 or contact the denomination-provided InfoServ staff (contact info available at umc.org). Thank you.

Thank you Karen,

Yes, I have been made aware of the importance of staying on topic. Sorry about that. I did find the "Jesus and Gay rights" written on March 3rd of this year. I'll rewrite my question there and if you wouldn't mind rewriting your response there, that would be great. It will be easier for people who are looking for info on the subject on this blog site to find it under that topical heading and they won't have to make the same mistake I did although some probably still will. It's easy to do.

Rich B.,

I apologize for mistaking the blog for a top-40 radio station. I get confused.

I will say that your judgement of my motivation is incorrect. Funny thing is I really just wasn't thinking, and I meant nothing by it. I guess I hit a nerve.
You have a great Christmas and I am blessed by the testimony you shared Lisa Sowry about your experience with the effects of the ministry going on in Sudan. It was very uplifting.

Forgive me all. I'm a little slow.
love, michaiah elaine browning-combs

I can't say I have given any great enormous amount to the Sudan project but what I have been able to give, well, I guess it's like I asked Jesus what HE wanted for Christmas and then I gave him just what he asked for. I think through the Sudan offering it's helped me feel a little closer in my walk as well as a little closer to the person I want to be. I don't have big Christmas's with alot of presents but what is given is a lot more thoughtful.

God has used the faith of a child to make me see the reality of Christmas. My 2 youngest children now ages 10 and 11 were orphans in their early life and they know first hand what it is like to be without. This is the second year they have wanted to particpate in the Sudan Bazaar. I was sick this year and didn't think we would be able to attend. It was so important to them they called my friend to take my place. We talk all year long about the children of the Sudan and the difficulties they face. They wear their Simply Live t-shirts to school and talk about it. Unlike most children my kids have not handed me any Christmas lists or have asked for any toys. The biggest impact was when my (very wealthy) father called and asked my 10 year old son what he wanted for Christmas this year and he replied so matter of fact "Nothing, it's not MY BIRTHDAY!"

Pastor Mike - It was a pleasure listening to Pastor Brian's sermon yesterday (12/21). What I like about Pastor Brian is his ability to integrate the foundation of the Bible with his true life experiences from his past. He is a true asset to the Ginghamsburg family. Hopefully, he will have the opportunity to preach again very soon.

Mike, I read this and thought "Oh, this will be easy" and then sat to write it down, and well, it isn't as easy as I thought to put into words what impact this has had on my family. Four years ago, when I told the kids that I was going to give half of their Christmas to the people of Darfur, they were a little distraught and I was afraid that I it would become a real sore spot. But as they (we) listened each week about what was going to happen with our collective gifts, I saw them sit up a little straighter and since that first Christmas, there have been no complaints. I have been amazed by the great family discussions it has enabled and the maturity that peeks out from my otherwise typical teenagers. I can say that it has sparked a great transformation in both of them (actually all of us) and sitting around doing the advent candle as a family and talking about the Sudan has created great, long chesishable family memories. I am still awed by what God has been able to do through one picture in a newspaper...
My one grumble would be the loss of our amazing Christmas season worship celebrations. I don't see where taking the traditional Christian music and feel of Christmas out of the church helps. I know we have lost December attendance and it seems like less people, means less miracle offering, not to mention less resources to meet our other many obligations. I don't think hearing Silent Night and celebrating the Joy that marks the birth of our Christ and Saviour damages our commitment to those in need. Just my humble opinion. Thanks for this blog, it is great to read the discussion sparked by your posts...

Hi Mike,
We wanted to share with you the impact The Sudan Project has had on us & our Christmas experiences. 3 years ago we began coming to Ginghamsburg & it was that Christmas of 2006 that we heard of this wonderful project - & of the unbelievable need of the Darfur. My wife was so touched by a phrase you used in helping all of us decide what gifts to give to our friends & family "If you can't make it or bake it, don't give it" are the words we heard. Cledith's first thought was "I can't make anything that I could give as a true gift to people for Christmas!" But we have applied this gifting attitude to greater & greater extents in 2007 & now 2008. We bake/make homemade pumpkin rolls for our friends & family - everybody loves these & most people know what a mess they can be to make. We limit purchased gifts to one store bought item for the little ones & kids still in school of our family - everyone else gets a pumpkin roll or one of the items we purchase at the Kids Bazaar for the Sudan held at Ginghamsburg. This year we made 54 pumpkin rolls.
An example of our changing mindset deals with our 19 year old & her bedroom that had been trashed for weeks & weeks (ok, maybe it was months!). Her Mom had been after her to get it cleaned up to the point that it was truly causing strife in the family. One day when Mom was home alone she spent a full 6 hours cleaning up this teenagers very nice room! When Rachel came home Mom told her she got Rachel's Christmas present for her today. Of course Rachel wanted to know what it was & Mom showed her downstairs to her room which was immaculate & said "Merry Christmas"! Rachel thought she was kidding but indeed that is her gift.

I don't worry about the Sudan offering. The miracle isn't produced by Ginghamsburg, or by Mike. Mike's job was to communicate God's heart to us, and God's job is to change our own so that we could feel what He feels, see what He sees, and do what He willed us to do. I love Christmas songs to, and hope we don't exclude them. Jesus is the entire reason we are doing what we do. But the miracle doesn't depend on how many people show up...it depends on God, and his ability to restore our first love, which produces that fiery passion, which fuels our desire to be His hands and feet in the world. Isn't that what birthdays are about? Celebrating the life of one's you love, showing gratitude for the gift they are to you, by giving them a token gift from the heart. May Jesus be lifted up this Christmas, and all through the year.

Hey Mike,
You asked us to share about serving this season, so here's my story. When the fire of Christ leads your life, the purpose of it is to set everyone ablaze. Last year, I got fired up to organize a Christmas program at the homeless shelter where I volunteered. We had food, music, a testimony from someone who used to live there, and prayer. It was a great time! This year, I got so busy that I honestly was not planning on doing it again. But it was too late, someone else got fired up to take it on this year-my Bible study leader! This is how God works - one flame to the next, if only we would stay close to the fire, engaged in His work. Jesus set the world on fire, one person at a time. So get fired up for something this season because who knows who may catch fire in your path. You never know how God may be using you as a trailblazer.

God bless you Erica and have a great Christmas!

I've been sharing the significance of Christ's birth to those around me by be by purposefully focusing on their needs and some wants. Seeking to ease their burdens so they do not become discouraged about the difficulties of life. Encouraging is a big part of what I want to become better at. To notice when those around me are feeling down or overwhelmed for various reasons, gives me opportunity to encourage them in their own language by doing something for them that has value to them or that gives them a sense of being cared for. Forgiveness is another way I am celebrating Jesus. That really goes a long way in freeing my spirit to just be love to people.
I also bought a "Change the World" T-Shirt from the E-Store and I'll probably get the CD as well.
I am buying my brothers who tend to spend their money on unnecessary things some groceries and an electric razor for Christmas to make it easier to shave and get out the door to work. I've also got this neighbor behind us (Mike) that well, I don't think he's wound too tight. He has a dog named Princess who used to jump the fence and try to bite me. I used to laugh because he painted her nails pink and she was half pit bull. Anyway, I think I'm going to see if me and my family could do something for him this year. So, I guess that's what I'm doing this year for some people in my life. God bless

I don't want to be negative or disturbing but the Lord just kept impressing upon me that there is a plan for the destruction of all the work you've done in Darfur. A serious threat. I am personally going to be in prayer and ask any skilled in warfare to be in prayer for God to confuse the plans of those involved whether it be their government or others etc. I'm sure you guys cleared out the place of goonies when you went to work there but they are working on those against your project.
Lord I pray tonight that believers unite in spirit and pierce the veil of darkness with their praise that your light may shine in to those in bondage. In Christ's name, Amen

When you asked us today in worship to post how we've simplified Christmas, I really wasn't how to answer that. Since the start of the Sudan Project, my husband and I have definitely made changes during the holidays so that our focus is more on others than ourselves, but I wasn't sure that I could put my finger on something concrete.

However, as I was going through my 8 year old son's school folder, I looked at his spelling test from last week. Each week, they have to come up with their own sentence using a few of their spelling words. This week, he wrote "The true meaning of Christmas is giving presents, not getting presents."

While I still can't figure out exactly what we are doing differently now, versus 5 years ago, I realize that our small changes are having a huge impact on our children. They know this is not their birthday, and while presents are nice, it's not the reason we're excited about Christmas. I'm so proud to be a part of a world-changing movement, and look forward to what we accomplish this year.

How has our Christmas changed since the Sudan Project?

Less spending, more giving, more gratitude, and some discomfort: “Am I giving enough? What is enough? Can one ever give enough? “

I love Pastor Slaughter’s focus on giving. I like being reminded that’s it’s not my birthday and I like having another “African Christmas”.

I asked my very stoic husband what he thought of the sermon today (12-14-08) and what he thought about the e mail that one family is going elsewhere as they do not want another “African Christmas”. My husband said he felt that we should have both. The traditional message and the message to give.

I agreed with my husband. I think he and I have a need to give and a need to relive the birth and joy of Jesus. The need to hear the Christmas story. For it is such a beautiful story.

I love our commitment to Darfur and all our missionary work, and I don’t want to take anything away from that. But we are all broken and hurting too, in one way or another and Christ uplifts us and brings us joy. The Christmas story is a beautiful story. A story that Christians hold precious and dear to their hearts.

“The World Is My Parish” – John Wesley

Thanks Ginghamsburg Church for putting us in good company.

When things are put into perspective, we may be broken but we’re not hurting; hurting like those dear souls in Darfur. I had a little boy hand me a Darfur envelope this morning and say “I want this to go to those kids Pastor Mike talks about in Darfur”. He nearly brought me to tears. This is the true meaning of the Christmas story; the birth of Christ, the gift he gave to us all.

We’ve decided to use our means this year for service. We’ll have a simple gift exchange at home but the majority of our gifts will be given to those who have little.

I want to share how Christmas has changed since the Sudan project started. "It's not your birthday" has been my main focus for the past 3 Christmas'. It's not about us but about Him, Jesus Christ, and the gift of giving and sharing God's love. The "live simply, so others may simply live" is a motto our family lives by, every day....not just at Christmas. This year my family has adopted two families, we have made several donations to different organizations, we were faithful servants involved in Operation Christmas, the Sudan Christmas bazaar and with Hoopa Holiday at Ginghamsburg. My daughter participated in the Samaritan Purse and we have given unconditionally to the Sudaneese and some charities close to home. It's all about helping others with not just their wants but their needs. It's also about donating your time to make a difference and spreading the word. We are the hands and feet of Jesus and I think the Sudan Project has brought that to light for so many. Thank you Mike and thank you Jesus!!

I love Ginghamsburg and its many ministries. God is really at work in our church!

Mike,

I was so intrigued by the brain power sitting on that stage with you...but even above that...the hearts of gold were much more impressive!! When people care about others, God's heart must be deeply touched...I know mine is!!

So another African Christmas...are they missing the beautiful songs that portray the Christ of Christmas? I'm one who loves the African Christmas and have it portrayed all over my office here at GIVE. I have a lot of people come through here and pick up the little card after asking about it! Not everyone is as taken by it as some of us, but then I know they support other missions so it all works out in God's plan!!

I, also, have the traditional Christmas of the manger scene
but when I look at both of these, I am reminded that it really isn't my birthday (as you keep saying)!! So I consider it a privilege to be a part of the African Christmas...who knows how long we will have that privilege?!! So, today, while I can...I will support my church in the following of God's calling...simply because it is a privilege!! We will move on to other things as God leads...so hang in there...it's only for a while!!

God bless all of you as you consider your gift to Him this Christmas!! Your blessings will be beyond measure!!!

Gratefully,

Barb Thase

Amen pastor Mike! I agree whole heartedly. Why can't we be happy for what we have, and cellibrate Christmas the way it is supposed to be...the birth of our savior Jesus. When my kids were growing up, before we opened what pressents we had, we would bring out a cake and sing "Happy Birthday" to Jesus. I want to continue to do this every year. Nancy T.

…I took the one less traveled by, and that made all the difference – Robert Frost from The Road Not Taken.

Twenty years ago today The Who played in Cincinnati. Eleven fans died. Seems mall shoppers are practicing festival seating – first come, first served to ensure their Christmas’ are jolly. Is it pitiful what we’ve become? We should all long for the day to walk in the virtuous road and that becomes the one more traveled.

My son attends The University of Cincinnati. A few weeks ago he was knocked from his feet during an on field surge after a football game. I thanked God a few strangers stopped and brought him back up before being injured. I had a long talk with him during the TG break about what went wrong and what was learned. The young one’s have this feeling of invincibility.

To me, this all boils down to virtues and values – those basic qualities commonly acknowledged among civilized people. We don’t embrace reap/sow or just refuse to accept the concept. Virtues and values are treasured beliefs that determine our actions.

God bless you Rich. I am thankful that your son is ok!

Thank you Mike!

This terriable incident shows so profoundly of the lack of caring and loving more for our neighbors than ourselves by a vast number of people,who so need Jesus.
God forgive us for such cruelty, thoughtlessness and lack of compassion for our fellowman.

I wish God's people would refuse to shop black Friday's so the retailers would also start to get the message. They stock 3-4 of a popular item and create stampedes in the door to get it. I realize it's our choice to participate...but the retailers have a part in it also. Believers need to protest that whole godless tradition by refusing to shop black friday, and letting the store know we won't be there. I haven't shopped one in years, I just refuse. People fighting, screaming at each other for parking places...it's just ate up.

I was reading about Nehemiah recently and although this topic isn't directly related, there is a principle in it.
Nehemiah had everyone living along the wall to go out and repair the section of wall directly in front of their home.
Those who for whatever reason couldn't could rely on the neighbor nearest to them for assistance. In this way the work load wasn't too much for anyone and there were those who traveled around to direct the task. It has always been one of my favorite scripture references and applies in my life everyday to some degree.

What happens when the work load becomes too much and the training isn't as effective as it could be. Too many corners cut. The Walmart situation is so tragic. I believe they are talking about giving out tickets to the first 10 or so people in line so that there is no rush to get the item they want that is advertised to just the first few people. The people behind them wouldn't be quite as in a hurry either. I don't do the Black Friday thing and I don't really get into all the traditions of Christmas. I do buy a little something for those in my immediate family, but that's about it. Our theology impacts what we value and how we express that value. We can have great theology and degrees etc., but it we don't practice what we believe, I guess it's pointless.

Israel's feasts and Holy days became filled with hollow and superficial activities to the point that they actually had prostitutes soliciting in the Temple. Right near where God Himself was residing in the Holy of Holies. How crazy is that. If they could get that far away from what they were supposed to be doing and allow things like that to go on, how much more will not only the World but especially lukewarm Christians reflect this same failure of diligence? God seems to always be speaking.

Good points EC. Plus you keep talking and spreading your wisdom, because there are many that will hear and act on what you say and more importly do. God Bless you Pastor Mike, Staff and Ginghamsburg Family. Merry CHRISTmas!!

Thank you Gary. Your words mean a lot and give me great encouragement.

EC. Jesus was not a celebrity and look what he did. You need to just follow Jesus and do what he leads you to do. Jesus knows your heart so let him guide you. And Pray, Pray, Pray as there is power in prayer.

I suppose He wasn't a celeb to those who didn't know Him, but it wasn't everyday any of the people living in that time or any since saw the kind of stuff He did. Maybe He was a celebrity, but one that some wanted to kill. Sorta like an outlaw. Only a righteous one. He's certainly a celebrity today. How many actually haven't heard of Him? Probably less than more. Being a true celebrity doesn't look like we think it will or be what we think it would.
I wonder how many shows He and the Apostles did back then and with media today, I imagine they would have been on the radar if for nothing more than the miracles. Of course we know they had more going on than just show business. They had character. Well, Jesus had perfect character but you know what I mean. I guess they'd have their own tv station and radio station and probably a lot of travel to blow a few minds. I think it's official. I'm crazy. Ha, Ha, take care.

I don't know where we picked this up as a culture, but the consumerism in people today, even God's people, is deeper than knowing the right values. I think if you ask a majority of Christians in heavy consumer non-secured debt they know what they got themselves into was counter to God's preferred plan with our stewardship; however, for some reason people are creatures of habit, and unfortunately the routine of instant gratification has become more favorable and a higher value has been placed on materialism thank on individual's belief systems.

Christians can make a difference, if we would hold to our values and strive to be "Christ-like" (right??) and speak and act on our Christian beliefs the same way we speak of politics or even our sports teams the example would be transforming. Isn't that what attracted people to Jesus, not who He said He was, but who He showed He was. It's hard to place blame for this culture until we've evaluated and self-checked as Christains.

Your post was thoughtful, GDN. As someone who has about 12,000-18,000 in unsecured debt, I am in a position ot be corrected. You're right. I have learned something though.
If we are not clearly focused when we have the opportunity (as when we are not in debt) then we tend to just take that path of least resistance and not really think about our spending especially if we tell ourselves, "Oh, it's not like I'm spending that much and I'm not buying extravagant stuff or anything". The rationalization isn't helpful. But overall, it's losing focus on financial priorities. Caesar takes His and the church has to beg for God's. It puts a strain on a few when if everyone disciplined themselves to give off the top a set consistent amount (a tenth [tithe] or 12% or my favorite is 11% for some reason)then that would be taken care of and as a general rule God more than replaces that money from multiple other sources. If you read this, realize God can give water from a rock if you need it so don't let money cause you to lack faith. Often it's a test. As a person who has been taken advantage of in numerous ways and for numerous reasons it has taken me this long to be as generous as I used to be. When a person is out of debt, God doesn't really ask for that much anyway and we usually end up blowing the money on something we don't need.
I'm not advocating the abuse of funds so you have to trust those whose umbrella you come under so to speak so you can give freely knowing they are looking out for you and the things of God. I know I will always focus on consistent giving and warfaring for the church. So don't be a scrooge this year. It's to God we give and He gives us credit for that even if we give to those who mishandle the funds. I was in a church a long, long time ago who basically did nothing for it's people and the minister's lived like well we've all seen it. Anyway, have faith and for the love of God, don't be stingy.

I believe we are back in the OT in Deuteronomy 6: 1-12, we have been given a great deal and we have forgotten to love the Creator and Belssings have overtaken the one who blesses.

To Judge v.t. to hear (a case) and pronounce sentence //
to examine and determine the relative
merits of // to estimate // to arrive
at an opinion concerning a person or
persons.

To Discern v.t. to see, perceive, have insight into
through spiritual senses.

The gift of Discernment is primarily used to correctly discern, perceive or discover the will of God in Scripture
(scripural intent), but may also give insight into situations for prayer, discussion or deciding where and to whom services are rendered., etc illuminates truth in situations. In it's proper function, it is needed for the will of God not only to be known, but to know how to handle situations correctly using scripture and wisdom from the Holy Spirit.

I thought this would be helpful.

Mike,

I'm one of those 50 young pastors and the first gathering of this new network is near the top of my list of things I'm thankful for this year. Thanks for what you are doing to lead our denomination!

God bless Mike, and Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours. I love to see a true "love story" and this is how I perceive the relationship between Sue and Chuck! What a God inspired blessing! And it happened right in our midst. I know that love can grow, in the most unlikely places, if God has a hand in it, it will be done. God be with you, Sue.
I am most grateful for the church and all the relationships within it. It is God's power and our commitment to produce a loving church community. To share life together with a loving family makes for a rich and deeply spiritual life. I pray that each person in the family is able to experience this. I am grateful for the fellowship at Ginghamsburg. One of the deepest levels of fellowship is suffering, when we enter into each other's pain, we are truly obeying our Father in heaven. We understand his suffering. I am grateful for the suffering.

Mike,

As another one of those young pastors I am also thankful for the opportunity to be part of this exciting journey with you, Adam, and my peers. Peace!

My family and I have been a member of the Ginghamsburg family for about three months. We have experienced the love, commitment, service, and deep faith of our Lord and savior that flows from his servants here and are truly thankful to be with you.

I had the opportunity to meet Chuck on father’s day, the first time I spoke at Ginghamsburg. He was a kind man and spoke to me about getting a motorcycle. Sue and Chuck were in service together when she introduced him. After hearing Mike’s message at Chuck’s home going service, I wish I had known him better!
Sue you were the first person I spoke to in depth about possibly joining the Ginghamsburg team. You were an inspiration then and now in your humble and encouraging spirit.
Always remember that God will keep His promise to you and all who mourn Chuck’s temporary absence. Truly the life he lived and your present journey will allow your paths to intersect once again. In the mean time, God will send the Comforter. Although you are somewhat small in stature, you have a mighty bright light! I am blessed to work along side you and call you my friend.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone...I'm thankful for all of you who broaden my experience of who God is. I look forward to learning and growing more in the new year with you all. I feel blessed to be in a church that loves Jesus Christ and expresses that love not just through faith but through deeds as well. They put their money where their mouth is. To me, that kind of puts the legs on true heart gratitude for what Jesus Christ has done for us. I'm honored to serve with you all.

This year has been an absolute flourish of God's work in my life. From meeting Sue in a Seminary class in February and beginning the discussion about joining the Ginghamsburg team, to my interview with Mike in April, Graduating from Seminary in May, being commissioned as a probationary Elder in June, joining the Ginghamsburg team in August, meeting with the Young Pastor's Network in October, and starting a second service at Fort McKinley in November.
With so much going on it is a great reminder to stop for a moment and give thanks to the one who makes all things possible. I am so incredibly thankful for my family, both immediate and extended and for the church that has allowed me to exercise my strengths and gifts in a way that is changing my life and the lives of those around me.
Mike, I also want to thank you for your faithful example of Godly leadership that has inspired me to be everything that God has created me to be! (I finally lost that 30th pound this morning!)
Here is my life verse that reminds me what I am supposed to be doing and who I am doing if for: 2 Timothy 2:15 - "Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the Word of truth."

I met Chuck about 9 years ago in singles ministry. He was among a few people that helped me feel good again after my divorce after 16 years of marriage. I learned as a single that there was many gifts I could give to others. I remember when Sue and Chuck started to date. They have been an example to many of us that there can be a second chance in finding a Christian soul mate. Dec 14th Bud and I will be married 5 years. I am so pleased that Chuck was able to get home and receive Hospice care. It is such a precious time. I told Sue that it is a gift that you give your loved one to keep them at home in their last days. Hospice staff gives the gift of comfort and peace to their patients and families. There are those times that Hospice patients and families are a gift to the Hospice staff as well. I Just know that Chuck and Sue was one of those families. I am thankful this year for the opportunity to have known Chuck in this short life on earth. I am also grateful for my work as a Hospice nurse. I am blessed daily.

My heart and thoughts go out to Sue. I didn't know her personally but you can't help but hear about her in the church and it's evident she is highly thought of.
In talking about blessings, I can't beleive how much God has chosen to bless me. I am so thankful.
Hospice called me on the 13th of this month and I rushed to Georgia on the 14th. Daddy never gained consciousness, his pupils were dialated and his breathing shallowed and his skin was breaking down. I helped to give my daddy a sponge bath that morning, put lotion on him and powder and turn him every couple of hours. Just that touching him and caring for him meant everything. Every once in awhile I would kiss him and feel his whiskers against my face. I tried so hard to embed that memory in my mind so I could remember how he felt. I watched him take his last breathe at about 2:40 p.m. on that Saturday. It meant alot to me to be with him that last day. My mother, sister and I sent my two brothers plane tickets to get to Georgia on friday night, the brother whose job situation has been poor came, the brother who has himself in debt up to his eyeballs didn't. There's a lesson there, after hearing the news that daddy has passed, he kept repeating that he should have come. His debt kept him tied to his two jobs and he will never get that time that he could have had with his dad back. I feel deeply for him. What a hard lesson. The doctors guessed that dad had 3 to 6 months when he was diagnosed in March of 2007. He lasted 20 and what a precious gift that was. I saw my dad every 4 to 6 weeks in this last 20 months and we talked about alot, I came to realize there was so much about my dad that I never ever knew. My son was granted Emergency Leave from the Army Reserves and he goes back tomorrow. He wanted to go for a drive last night and we did and just like when he was little I drove and he just talked and talked and talked. He talked about what his grandpa meant to him and the memories he has and the similarities of his life, he talked about Rick Johnson and he laughed at how his D group would frustrate Rick so much by just doing stupid stuff but how much that time meant to him (and Rick if your reading this, he said he wants to get with you when he comes home in January, he'll be starting college and he will be stationed near Cincinnati and working part time until/unless he gets deployed). He talked about wanting his life to mean something and he said he has made the decision about his career path and he wants to get involved working with youth and troubled kids somehow. How far he has come. I look at his Army picture versus the copies of the picture that was in the national Rock/music magazines last November 2007 with his band with piercings and tatoos. The same month Jake left the band. Within the next 5 months after he left, the band was busted for drugs twice and for DUI and involved in a brawl in different states from coast to coast. I've been so blessed. Jake talked about how his grandpa never judged him but just loved him as he was even though he knows it left his grandpa wondering what the heck was going on and in this journey of the last 20 months I can clearly see how God was there every single step of the way. Jake wanted his grandpa to see him in his uniform and the last picture of my dad alive was taken in September with Jake in his uniform and they are both beaming from ear to ear. What a blessing. What a forgiving God. If I ever doubt again that God exists and that he is a loving and merciful God I just need to remember this year. I figured out my budget for the next year and within the year I think my savings will be back and the credit card debt will be almost gone. This 20 months has taken it's toll but it's all been worth it to spend that time with daddy and mom. It's been the greatest most horrible year that one could have. I've been blessed with a job that has been tolerant of my frequent leaves and allowing me to work from Georgia when needed and I only missed one maybe 2 trips this entire 20 months. I've been blessed with the means to do travel to and from Georgia. I started to write that Life has been good but Life has been rough, God has just been magnificient however. I have alot to be thankful. The thing I love about my church is just like God it's always been there for me. It's like coming home to walk in those doors after traveling so much. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.

Then the angel said to me, "Write: 'Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!' “And he added, "These are the true words of God." Revelation 19:9

My condolences to Pastor Sue and family.

How fitting to celebrate Advent during these challenging economic times. As we anticipate His return, we need be reminded of God’s blessings. Look beyond material difficulties and focus on the true message – the Nativity of Jesus.

Bach’s Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring never sounded better!

Chuck was my friend and he was one the strongest men I knew, STRONG IN FAITH. He was a true Marine and God needed a Marine in heaven. I will truely miss my friend but I know he is very happy today with the Lord. He also had a second love and that was Sue. We are all BLESSED who walk with Jesus.

Craig, I can't quite get my mind around the fact that Chuck is gone. He had quite a presence. I will miss his strong, simple faith. His sense of humor...which was always present. It doesn't seem real yet.

I just want to say that we are blessed by all that takes place at Ginghamsburg Church!!

I need to say this...I love Sue and her gentle spirit!! She has been a blessing to me from the first class that I had the privilege to attend under her teaching.

Sue, if there is anything that I can do for you, please let me know...I will be there for you!! You are in my prayers!!

Love in Him,

Barb Thase